Do you dread the moment you get your puppy cozy and settled – only to leave them alone, and have them bark for attention?
It’s a common challenge for new puppy parents! So what can you do to help your pup settle down for good once you leave the room?
Puppies are known for their almost limitless energy. While this makes for great play sessions, too much unspent energy can leave your pup restless and unable to settle down. Make sure they get lots of physical and mental exercise during the day. Long walks and lots of play will wear your puppy out and help them sleep quietly when you leave them alone.
Try not to let your puppy take long naps during the day or right before bed. If your pup falls asleep for too long, they won’t sleep through the night. A walk and play 2 hours before bedtime is best to encourage your pup to sleep calmly.
Is your puppy crying because they need to go outside? Make sure you set a regular toilet routine for your puppy while house training them, so they know when to expect to go. Otherwise, you may find your pup is confused and wants to go out when you leave the room!
As well as setting a toilet routine, try to feed your puppy at the same times each day. Never give food or water too close to bedtime or your pup will need to go outside. Ideally you should feed your puppy 3 hours before bedtime and stop allowing water 1 hour before bedtime to help them settle through the night. Setting regular mealtimes during the day will also help your pup learn when to expect food and not to whine or bark for it.
Keep in mind that younger puppies with smaller bladders may still need to go out in the night. As they grow, and their toilet training progresses, this need will be less frequent.
Sometimes a bored puppy is a noisy puppy! Chew toys, food puzzles and games are all important to make sure your pet is busy and has something to keep them interested. Your pup may be barking or whining because they want attention and play, so keep your puppy entertained. Food toys and puzzles such as a food bone or KONG toy are particularly effective – licking is self-soothing and will help to calm your pup and giving these toys at bedtime can help to ensure a peaceful night.
If you can’t pinpoint why your puppy is barking when left alone (and have ruled out distractions, boredom and other triggers), it may be worth checking with your veterinarian to ensure nothing is wrong.
It’s important that your puppy learns to settle on their own, but keep in mind that the transition period may take a little time or even a few weeks. You can encourage and reinforce this lesson by rewarding longer periods of quiet alone time, but be sure not to react to any barking and crying.
Don’t rush back into a room to a barking puppy, instead wait until they settle before coming to pet them. This way your pup will learn that quiet, calm behaviour is rewarded.
You should also avoid letting your puppy sleep in your bed. This will only reinforce the message that they need you nearby to settle, which isn’t ideal when you need them to sleep in another room!
A safe, supportive environment is just what your puppy needs to help them settle when left alone. A safe haven with treats, comforting blankets and something that smells of you, such as an old t-shirt, will help to calm your puppy even when you’re not in sight. Having music on as a calming background noise may also help your puppy relax and settle down when you want them to.
Make sure your puppy’s safe space is never used as a place for punishment – it should be a happy calm area where they can relax.
Using an ADAPTIL Junior Collar can help your puppy cope with being alone and reassure them, particularly for the first couple months after adoption.